Tips for Finding Love
Listen up, singletons! You won’t find the love of your life by waiting for them in the produce aisle at the grocery store, or by hoping they’ll sit next to you on the subway. So, it’s time to reevaluate your tactics! You have to approach your dating life like a job search. Sure, there’s something to be said for luck, but if you have a strategic plan, something will come through faster. Here’s some advice
Remember this: Alot of folks are too embarrassed to ask for help finding love, but don’t be. It’s like someone saying “I'm unemployed, but too embarrassed to find a job.” Think of all the people in your life as possible networking opportunities.
*Get online. One-fourth of the people who got married last year met online. So, if you don’t already have a profile with a reputable dating site - make one. Use Twitter. Send out a tweet to your friends and invite them to appetizers Friday after work at your favorite restaurant – and tell them to bring friends. Also, make sure the people you’re really interested in know by sending them an informal, direct message, such as, “Having a tweet-up Friday night at El Torito. Hope you can make it!”
*Don’t forget about Facebook! Take it seriously and treat your page like a dating profile. If a guy sees a bad photo of you on Facebook, or weird interests, he may not give you a chance. So, pick five words that represent you and make sure your Facebook profile reflects those five words. Then, once you’re satisfied with your profile, cruise around your friends’ Facebook pages and find 50 people you find interesting – and “friend” them. You’ve got nothing to lose, and you already have a friend in common. Instant conversation starter!
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