Tomorrow is the Night!

Relationships are like anything else in life. There fun in the beginning, then it looses a little of the fire and then, if your not careful, it gets cold!
I honestly believe that SEX, yes I said it, Sex is the glue in a strong relationship. Relationships without it are just existing, not growing.
So here is my suggestion...
Plan this for tomorrow night or at least one night this week. Go to your underwear drawer, pick out something  that you haven't worn in a while, something that you know he or she(and guys you need to do this too!) will love to see you wear. Then, BEFORE bedtime, unbutton and show him or her what you have on underneath. Just a little hint...when bedtime comes, give them a little show. Maybe just a wiggle when you strip down. Then the rest is ALL up to them!   DO It!...Do It!   Your relationship will thank you for it!
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?????....Commit!

Rethink Your Dating Strategy

You may be the smartest person in the room, but one relationship expert says, sometimes, the smartest people have the toughest time dating. If that’s you, it’s time to re-think your dating strategy! That’s according to Dr. Alex Benzer who wrote The Tao of Dating. Dr. Benzer says in order to find the right partner, you should take a close look at yourself. Here are a few things to think about:

• First, remember love isn’t a contest! Dr. Benzer says smart people like to date other smart people. However, resist the urge to compete! Instead of trying to one-up each other when it comes to intelligence or ambition, celebrate the way you compliment each other. Don’t let competition ruin a good match! If someone always has be right, or win, that means the other has to be wrong, or lose. That doesn’t create romance.
• You also want to leave the person you are at work, at work! No matter if you’re a CEO or a teacher, Dr. Benzer says people respect a partner who takes charge at the office, but who doesn’t have to be in control on a date.
• If you want a meaningful relationship, make finding one as big a priority as the other things in your life. A lot of ambitious people end up alone – because they put all their focus into their job, but if you like someone, give them the same energy you give to your work.
• As hokey as it sounds, Dr. Benzer suggests you BE the love you want to attract! If you’re full of joy and compassion, and make your date feel like a billion bucks, you’ll get that back. It’s like the tennis ball analogy we mention on this show – the way you hit a tennis ball against a wall is exactly how it’ll come back to you.
• You have to go with your heart – not just your brain. Someone might have all the qualities you want in a partner: a great job, a good sense of humor, a good family - but Dr. Benzer says: if being with them doesn’t make you feel good, you’re probably with the wrong person.

Have Dinner With Your Kids

Parents, want to improve your kids’ grades, their health, and stop them from trying cigarettes, alcohol, and drugs? Then skip the sit down talks and have sit down dinners instead. Here are three reasons to gather ‘round the table:Family meals make kids healthier. In a University of Minnesota study, teens who ate the most meals with their families while growing up turned into college students who ate the most fruits and vegetables. The same study showed that family meals drastically reduced the risk of kids developing an eating disorder.Your kids will be smarter. In a study done at Harvard University, younger children who ate with their parents had better vocabularies. Columbia University researchers found that high-schoolers who had dinner with their families got 40 percent more As and Bs than those who didn’t.Kids who eat with their parents are less likely to try alcohol, cigarettes and drugs. Miriam Weinstein, the author of The Surprising Power of Family Meals, says that kids who don’t sit down to dinner with their family at least three times a week triple their risk of experimenting with alcohol, nicotine or drugs. If you’re thinking, “Good luck getting my kids to sit still for dinner,” check this out: In a national survey, eight out of 10 teens said they preferred eating with their parents.