Jealousy

Relationships can be hard to maintain on a healthy level with all the stress of daily life. Why add more stress by adding jealousy into the mix? Jealousy is a waste of energy and time and can even drive your partner toward infidelity. Let's face it, jealousy spawns from only a few reasons. Lack of trust, low self confidence, or you have the hottest guy/gal within 100 miles and don't want anyone to take them away. With that said, no matter how hard you try, how closely you follow their every move, no matter how insanely JEALOUS you become, you cannot stop your partner from straying, if they are determined to do so, like it or not! What can you do you ask? You can be yourself, trust them, until proven otherwise, and direct your attention to making your relationship as refreshing and new as possible. Take pride in the fact that your guy or gal is attractive and appealing enough that other people take interest in them and remind your partner that your still crazy about him or her. In a nutshell, Jealousy is a waste of time!

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So many relationships have no real communication. You can talk about day to day details, bills that need to be paid, or who forgot to flush but, intimate subjects are rarely discussed.

Most couples are shy about discussing sex, fantasies, desires, even though they may have been together many years. So, how do you solve this problem? Here are a couple of suggestions that are sure to work. First of all find a podcast about intimacy or sex in general, make a cd or put it on an ipod so both of you can listen and discuss it , open-mindedly, later. CHECK THIS OUT..

Another suggestion is Playboy Radio, yep you heard right! Sirius/XM Radio has a program called Afternoon Advice that covers just about every issue a couple may have. The idea is to create discussion!! Make an effort, and above all, be open minded and enjoy each other’s thoughts and opinions. You will be amazed what this will do for your relationship. Go for it!!!